So often in life, we feel as if things are out of our control. We feel like a moving pawn in a chess game where we have to do this or be this because that’s what we’re supposed to do. Says who? I remember when I worked at a jewelry store and people would ask me ‘is it ok to wear____’ and I would simply smile and say this is your piece you can wear what you want. I remember before I started my journey to happiness I lived by those social rules thinking that there was a right or wrong way to live life. When in actuality there isn’t. There’s no right or wrong way to live your life just like there’s no right or wrong way to wear a piece of jewelry. As long as you’re not harming anyone there’s only your way or their way and only you can choose which way you go.